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Get Rid of Career-Love Conflict Once and For All
Did you know that more than half of Americans are unhappy with their love life?
Famous relationship expert, Dr. John Gottman, states, “69% of relationship conflict is about perpetual problems.”
Ever felt like you’re in a boxing match between work and love? You’re not alone. In fact, more than half of Americans struggle with their relationships.
My approach is a new way to think about relationships and balance. It’s hailed as a game-changer in relationship coaching, equipping you to balance work and love effectively. Gone are the days of choosing between late-night client meetings and cozy dinner dates.
Imagine coming home to a partner who truly understands you, having real conversations that don’t revolve around work, and not worrying about unread emails over the weekend. With my “Art of Relating Program”, this is not just a dream; it can be your reality.
Your Personal Therapist and Relationship Coach
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Meet Christine Kniffen MSW, LCSW your therapist and relationship coach. With a master’s degree from the University of Missouri-Columbia and over 20 years in relationship coaching, Christine has helped numerous individuals achieve a work-love balance.
Her “Art of Relating” approach is simple, yet incredibly effective. It’s not about grand gestures or poetic expressions of love. It’s about understanding, empathizing, communicating, and connecting at the most basic level.
Welcome to a new way of bonding.
Welcome to a balanced life.
Who I Work With
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Decode Emotions Like a Relationship Expert...
Get your personal roadmap to master the maze of relationships. This isn't like any other relationship book you've come across. There's no filler, no fluff, no untested theory. It's a book you can read in an afternoon and walk away with strategies worth thousands.
"The Art of Relating: A Primer for Love" includes:
• Comprehensive Relationship Guide: This isn't just a book; it's your guide through the maze of relationships, offering valuable insights and advice. So rather than groping in the dark, you get a roadmap to a fulfilling love life.
• Pattern Recognition: The book helps you identify and break unhealthy patterns in relationships. So rather than repeating the same mistakes, you learn to make better choices for a healthier love life.
• Self-Esteem Boost: The book aims to bolster your self-esteem and relationship expectations. So instead of settling for less, you build the confidence to expect and achieve a relationship that you deserve.
• Practical Dating and Relationship Advice: It provides practical advice for both dating and existing relationships. So instead of floundering in love's tricky waters, you get to sail smoothly toward a happy relationship.
And that's just the start! Immerse yourself in "The Art of Relating: A Primer for Love," and discover the transformational power it holds.
How It Works
Step-by-Step Guide:
- Initial Consultation: We will discuss your current struggles/challenges in either your existing relationship or your efforts to find one.
- Customized Plan: Based on the initial consultation, Christine crafts a tailored coaching plan targeting your specific challenges.
- Ongoing Sessions: Engage in regular virtual sessions with Christine, designed to tackle issues and foster growth in your communications.
- Progress Assessment: Ongoing assessment to track your progress and adjust the coaching plan as needed to ensure optimal results.
Methods Used: Christine combines evidence-based practices with real-world experience to foster deeper connections. Techniques include active listening exercises, conflict resolution strategies, and emotional attunement skills, all aimed at improving communication and intimacy.
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Art of Relating Book Reviews
A Must-Read on the Journey to Love
I wish I’d had The Art of Relating when I was much younger. It could have saved me from learning so many of its lessons the hard way. Christine Kniffen has crafted a guide that feels as personal as it is practical, addressing the complex, messy reality of love and relationships with clarity and heart.
Kniffen’s tone is conversational, like a wise friend who truly gets it. I found myself nodding along and even laughing at times as she described the pitfalls of gravitating toward emotionally unavailable partners or losing oneself in a relationship. The chapter on the difference between “I” and “We” hit particularly close to home, as it mirrored challenges I’ve faced in my own relationships. I have definitely been a “vanishing self” at times, and it’s a relief to know I fought my way out of that habit.
This book is packed with practical advice and reflective exercises that make you stop and evaluate your patterns and choices. I kept thinking how invaluable this would be for every young person stepping into the world of love. If I’d had this book, I might have avoided some heartbreaks and approached relationships with a healthier, more confident mindset. I wholeheartedly recommend The Art of Relating to anyone looking to find love—or keep it thriving. It’s a must-read.
Gave me a new perspective on relationships
Like many people, I have always found relationships difficult and complicated, but this book breaks them down in ways that feel both deeply personal and universally practical. As I read, I couldn’t help but reflect on my own relationships, both past and present, and realized how much of Kniffen’s advice resonated with me. One chapter in particular, about being overly fixated on the elusive “it” factor, felt like it was written specifically for me. It challenged me to rethink how I evaluate connection and chemistry—and what truly matters in a partnership.
Kniffen’s insights extend beyond just couples. If you’re single, you’ll find invaluable guidance on recognizing patterns in attraction and addressing insecurities before they sabotage potential connections. And if you’re in a challenging relationship, the tools for separating emotion from reality, stopping the blame game, and fostering healthier communication are game-changing. Even those in happy relationships will find tips to deepen intimacy, maintain boundaries, and grow together.
What I appreciated most was how emotionally honest yet pragmatic the writing felt. It’s like having a conversation with a wise and compassionate friend who isn’t afraid to challenge you. Kniffen makes vulnerability feel empowering and practical advice feel achievable.
Whether you’re struggling in love, thriving but looking to improve, or navigating singlehood, this book offers something for everyone. It’s not just about fixing relationships—it’s about building them with intention, self-awareness, and authenticity.
Building More Meaningful Relationships
“The Art of Relating” is a great book for anyone who is currently struggling in their relationship or looking for love. This book provides practical examples to guide people through some of the most difficult and long-lasting situations and decisions you can face, such as choosing the right person and discovering secure, true love. Christine Alane Kiffen writes in a relatable, easy-to-read style that will help build stronger relationships. I particularly appreciated the opportunities for self reflection that were encouraged throughout the book. Kiffen’s ideas can help build respect, understanding and a deeper care between you and your partner. Considering our past, relationships that were modeled for us growing up, and our personalities can help build confidence and love. Whether you are looking for a more meaningful connection in your current relationship, or looking for a new, flourishing relationship, this book will help you find what you are looking for.
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